Time moves on. Change is inevitable. Choice and free will are participants in the onward motion, when consciousness is present.
Fear of the unknown constantly feeds in messages. What if the new move turns out to be unsuitable? Research and preparation are useful in dealing with this.
Stillness has its moments, but only with regard to economy of gesture and motion.
An intuitive soul tried reasoning with me, but her message needed to cover the big picture.
Choices made at that point in time taught important lessons in any case, so maybe my own intuition was more useful. Here we are, today.