The images are all around us. Books are available to read. Search engines have vast amounts of data stored.
Nothing beats the urge to communicate. One can be presented with zillions of options, through access to the practises of others, but there has to be something to say and an attitude about it, in the first place.
Validation might work for some. Eventually, each person looks in the mirror. What feeling does the reflection produce?
Hustling brings rewards of a sort. What happens when the energy flags?
Radical honesty helps to save a lot of time and effort.