Validation makes the world go round, when the plot is lost by most.
Being seen, heard and feeling loved are natural things to wish for. Quality should count for more than quantity in this regard.
What could be more precious than touching hearts, without even trying to do so?
It is special to know the feeling of being hyper conscious about an attribute, whilst also knowing the sensation of taking it for granted.
This is transcendental knowledge. Only those who have access to it can understand.