Sometimes, the wheels of a process have to be set in motion, to provide sufficient information for a person to be aware of what they enjoy doing.
Observers will assess situations from a distance, thinking they have an objective perspective. The person going through the experience is best placed to give a truthful account, however.
Practices are dependent on people and group dynamics. Feelings are the ultimate litmus test.
Once the decks are cleared, there will be other options.
Life goes on, is the long or short of the matter.
